Holidays are Hard on Relationships – Starting Fresh in the New Year
As the holiday season ends and the calendar turns to 2026, many couples begin contemplating significant life changes—including divorce. Every year, family law attorneys see a noticeable increase in divorce filings in January. For many spouses, the holidays mark the last attempt to hold things together for the children, for family traditions, or simply for the sake of peace.
The truth is that holidays are emotionally charged. Stress levels run high, expectations can be unrealistic, and strained communication often surfaces in painful ways. By the time the decorations are packed away, some couples have decided it’s time for a new chapter.
Even when one or both spouses have known for months that the relationship isn’t working, it’s common to delay filing until after the holidays. The intention is often to spare loved ones—or avoid disrupting family gatherings. Once the new year arrives, however, many are ready to act, to make a clean start, and resolve to untangle themselves from an unhappy marriage.
New Year Divorce Statistics
Family law attorneys often refer to January as “Divorce Month.” But this isn’t just anecdotal—it’s supported by data and experienced across the legal community.
Studies show divorces increase by more than one-third in January.
Many divorce attorneys report a 25% to 30% rise in new cases after the holidays.
A U.K. poll of over 2,000 married individuals found one in five couples plan to divorce after the new year.
While some spouses file during the holidays out of frustration or spite, most wait until the new year for practical reasons—fresh starts, new resolutions, and the psychological opportunity to turn the page.
Planning for Taxes and Finances
The start of a new year also signals tax season—and that means it’s time to get financially organized. Financial transparency is essential in every divorce, and January offers a natural opportunity to gather what you’ll need.
When preparing for divorce, be sure to:
Understand your debt — Review credit cards, mortgages, and other liabilities.
Gather key financial documents — Collect W-2s, 1099s, property tax statements, and recent pay stubs.
Organize investment and retirement accounts — Brokerage and pension statements arriving in January often include important valuation details that will influence division of assets.
Being proactive about finances not only saves time and stress but also gives your attorney the information necessary to help you navigate the divorce efficiently.
Find an Attorney and Prepare to Get To Work
Because divorce filings surge in January, it’s wise to consult an attorney early. Choose an experienced family law firm that understands both the emotional and procedural complexities of divorce.
At Livingstone Law, APC, we’ve served the San Diego family law community for more than 30 years. With two dedicated attorneys and a knowledgeable support staff, our firm helps clients address custody, financial, and property issues with professionalism and compassion.
Practical Tips to Stay on the Fast Track
The average contested divorce in San Diego takes around 18 months—sometimes longer. To keep things moving efficiently:
Prepare early: Don’t wait months to begin drafting financial disclosures or developing parenting arrangements. Work with your attorney to set clear goals and timelines.
If children are involved: The court may require mediation through Family Court Services. Your attorney will help you prepare for this crucial step to achieve the best outcome.
File and serve correctly: Proper filing and service are essential to start the legal process. Be thorough about what you’re requesting—such as child support, division of assets, or restoration of a maiden name.
Stay proactive: Work closely with your attorney to meet deadlines and avoid unnecessary hearings. This cooperation reduces costs and helps move your case toward settlement or trial.
Work with experienced custody and asset attorneys
If you’re considering filing for divorce in early 2026, now is the time to plan and prepare. A knowledgeable attorney can help you evaluate your options, preserve your financial interests, and protect your relationship with your children.
At Livingstone Law, APC, we help clients navigate every stage of the divorce process with skill, efficiency, and empathy. Whether your case involves complex assets, custody disputes, or financial support, our team is committed to achieving the best possible outcome for you.
Contact us today at (619) 630-2165 or fill out a form for a free phone consultation. Let 2026 be the year you reclaim peace, stability, and a fresh start.
